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needyou

In my day.. But I do them with the feeling of sadness. I feel sad when I have thoughts in the background of my mind.. This is the difficult part of recovery

User2525

Hey can somebody check my absurd theme in other types

User2525

Can someone chak it and reply please

Joe

Its funny on this forum- Everyone comes, writes something, and when they dont get the answer they want to hear or dont get re assurance you come back as guests or pretend to be other guests and try THE SAME QUESTION again. I had a post about HOCD which was viewed almost 300 times in 3 days yet every other post as 3-10 views? Everyone is here for re-assurance and are not working towards Recovery!

Seamstress

That's not completely true. I know what you mean, but I am here to help in my recovery as well as to encourage others. By the way how do I see how many views are on a post. Not aware of that feature. My main complaint with this forum is all the spam on it. Hard to find the real posts on forum.

Seamstress

Never mind. I see the views now. Wasn't looking in the right place.

Hoping

True, really hard to find the real posts

Hoping

Hey everyone, does anyone have any suggestions or can share the morning routine you use during the weekends? I have severe OCD especially on weekend mornings, even if the rest of my week has been relatively okay.

User2525

I have an unusual theme can someone reply to it it's in other types of ocd category

andrey_m

Can someone help me, please? I need to hear your opinion. Is there someone who has overcome false memory ocd?

Amando

Hey i'm struggling with real event ocd. I've had every theme of ocd and did erp and felt better. But now this real event ocd is bothering. It started when i've searched for a girl username on google who sends nudes the i've lied to her and show her some pictures of private part which i downloaded on google.we were s*x chatting then she found out and told but i deactivated my account now i'm afraid

Amando

Now i'm afraid that i commited a crime and i also get thoughts that she might have commited suicide and i get urges to hand myselft to the police

Amando

Can someone help me?

User2525

Can someone just check my theme and answer? https://youhaveocd.com/forum/topic/fear-of-deleting-important-account/#postid-12957

User2525

Actually it's this link https://youhaveocd.com/forum/topic/fear-of-deleting-important-account/

User2525

It feels loneöy with a theme that nobody else has sometimes i wish i would have a more common theme

User2525

Please somebody answer

User2525

My recovery would be so much eaaier

User2525

Please

User2525

Im so sorry for spam

User2525

I wont put a message for a while just please help im actively doing erp but theres this one question that i haven't got answered

User2525

Actually nevermind that might be reassuranse

Amando

User2525

Actually nevermind that might be reassuranse

Yeah man keep doing erp

User2525

You can just casually check it out but not give reassurase i think it would be okay if people were more aware of absurd themes

User2525

Amando

Yeah man keep doing erp

Because yes

User2525

I justhad a bad daywith erp

User2525

At öeast i realised it now ps oh im filling the chat again sorry

Amando

User2525

At öeast i realised it now ps oh im filling the chat again sorry

No that's fine man i understand you

Amando

Did you read my post?

Amando

Do you think mine also is ocd?

User2525

Wait one sec i'll read it

User2525

Hmm i get that i once had slight real event ocd (i've had many themes) at least it's more common than mine just do erp no matter what

User2525

Could you read the post about my avsurd theme don't give reassurance just give me a honest opinion and tell me whta you think

User2525

About it

User2525

Abd i absolutely think your theme is ocd

User2525

*and

Jessica

How much today

Jessica

How much your daily now

Jessica

U happy together all day none stop

Jessica

Hola

Powerful

needyou

In my day.. But I do them with the feeling of sadness. I feel sad when I have thoughts in the background of my mind.. This is the difficult part of recovery

Oh, totally, the sadness or fear was always in the background for me. But now I am so so much better. you are doing well if you are keeping yourself busy. The sadness will pass, believe me. Just keeping going! Track your rumination. It worked for me, it will work for you, don't give up

Amando

User2525

Could you read the post about my avsurd theme don't give reassurance just give me a honest opinion and tell me whta you think

Where is your post?

Bec1990

Powerful

Oh, totally, the sadness or fear was always in the background for me. But now I am so so much better. you are doing well if you are keeping yourself busy. The sadness will pass, believe me. Just keeping going! Track your rumination. It worked for me, it will work for you, don't give up

Hi all

Kevin Le

Bec1990

Hi all

how did u track ur rumination and im getting better but i sometimes feel like i dont wanna get better it hurts but im making slow progress im becoming an ea and im worried im not set for the job. - 7787754018 fongo

User2525

https://youhaveocd.com/forum/topic/fear-of-deleting-important-account/

User2525

There is my post

User2525

My theme

User2525

Please somebody reply there

User2525

I have never got an ansver from somebody that knows about ocd

User2525

Sorry for filling the chat again i can wait for an answer i just calmed down but the answer would still be very good

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Guest

January 1, 2021, 9:58 am

Quote from Guest on January 1, 2021, 9:58 am
Hello,

I have anxiety disorder for a year. It started after graduation. I got a job and I had a very severe boss. I was very stressed. At work I had shortness of breath, etc., I was constantly afraid that I could be fired and could be left with nothing, I only waited until the probationary period was over. Autumn and spring were always the worst months. This summer I had practically no symptoms at all, I met a great guy, I stopped worrying about my job and wanted to quit my therapy, and suddenly in September I got the hocd (I think).

In general, I must admit that I never had an orgasm with a man, but despite this, sex and closeness have always brought me pleasure. I was always drawn to men and fell in love with men. However, I had an episode in my life where I watched lesbian pornography and started masturbating to it, and then I always had an orgasm. Perhaps the most exciting thing for me was that there was such a taboo subject. I was never worried about it, however, I did not think about it and I did not analize it, because in reality I was never attracted to women, I was even a little disgusted. I was always sure what I feel and who I like. Sometimes I kissed my girl friends (party etc.) and was picked up by women, but I didn't feel anything at all. When I met my current guy, I stopped watching these movies, forgot about it at all.

Suddenly in the fall, I started to wonder why I didn't have an orgasm with my boyfriend and then it reminded me that I always had an orgasm with lesbian porn and then it started. Intrusive thoughts, searching for answers on the Internet, the world went crazy. I don't feel like having sex. I want to do nothing. Nothing makes me happy. I don't know what I want, who I am. In the past it was for me incomprehensible how it could be possible to do not know it. I never had any doubts. I feel I have no control about my life. I'm afraid I go crazy and I destroy my reletionship if I do not resolve the problem now. I need help. Plus, I put the mesturbation technique into my sex with my partner and I normally get an orgasm by oral sex. It calmed me down a bit, but it's hard to get rid of these thoughts now, because my reletionship is very importent to me and

fears want to take away from us what is most important to us. Maybe I am really a hidden lesbian? However, I can't imagine a relationship with a woman, I don't even feel like I could even try sex with my boyfriend and another girl together or something. I just want everything to be as in the past. I am not a homophobe by any means, I have friends lesbians, gays. My family and friends are extremely tolerant. I live in Germany, a very tolerant country, so I see no reason why I would have to hide that I am a lesbian. Anyway, if I am a lesbian, I would have noticed it earlier, I would fall in love with some girl in the past. It is impossible to do not know it. I am now 26 years old.

Anyone have similar experiences? Did anyone come out of this? Could you help me?

I want to stop to search the things in internet. It makes me crazy. I feel I lose the control. My therapist said to me I have to stop to search, because this is just a fear and I still have it in my head, because I deal with it all the time, but it is hard to believe that this is just the fear and I am not a lesbian. I feel better if I do not read the things one week etc., but than I have a wrong day and I need to calm down and I start to read again. I know the best way it would be just survive the bad days, but it is hard and I need to read.

Thank you for your help!

Best regards,

Marta

Hello,

I have anxiety disorder for a year. It started after graduation. I got a job and I had a very severe boss. I was very stressed. At work I had shortness of breath, etc., I was constantly afraid that I could be fired and could be left with nothing, I only waited until the probationary period was over. Autumn and spring were always the worst months. This summer I had practically no symptoms at all, I met a great guy, I stopped worrying about my job and wanted to quit my therapy, and suddenly in September I got the hocd (I think).

In general, I must admit that I never had an orgasm with a man, but despite this, sex and closeness have always brought me pleasure. I was always drawn to men and fell in love with men. However, I had an episode in my life where I watched lesbian pornography and started masturbating to it, and then I always had an orgasm. Perhaps the most exciting thing for me was that there was such a taboo subject. I was never worried about it, however, I did not think about it and I did not analize it, because in reality I was never attracted to women, I was even a little disgusted. I was always sure what I feel and who I like. Sometimes I kissed my girl friends (party etc.) and was picked up by women, but I didn't feel anything at all. When I met my current guy, I stopped watching these movies, forgot about it at all.

Suddenly in the fall, I started to wonder why I didn't have an orgasm with my boyfriend and then it reminded me that I always had an orgasm with lesbian porn and then it started. Intrusive thoughts, searching for answers on the Internet, the world went crazy. I don't feel like having sex. I want to do nothing. Nothing makes me happy. I don't know what I want, who I am. In the past it was for me incomprehensible how it could be possible to do not know it. I never had any doubts. I feel I have no control about my life. I'm afraid I go crazy and I destroy my reletionship if I do not resolve the problem now. I need help. Plus, I put the mesturbation technique into my sex with my partner and I normally get an orgasm by oral sex. It calmed me down a bit, but it's hard to get rid of these thoughts now, because my reletionship is very importent to me and

fears want to take away from us what is most important to us. Maybe I am really a hidden lesbian? However, I can't imagine a relationship with a woman, I don't even feel like I could even try sex with my boyfriend and another girl together or something. I just want everything to be as in the past. I am not a homophobe by any means, I have friends lesbians, gays. My family and friends are extremely tolerant. I live in Germany, a very tolerant country, so I see no reason why I would have to hide that I am a lesbian. Anyway, if I am a lesbian, I would have noticed it earlier, I would fall in love with some girl in the past. It is impossible to do not know it. I am now 26 years old.

Anyone have similar experiences? Did anyone come out of this? Could you help me?

I want to stop to search the things in internet. It makes me crazy. I feel I lose the control. My therapist said to me I have to stop to search, because this is just a fear and I still have it in my head, because I deal with it all the time, but it is hard to believe that this is just the fear and I am not a lesbian. I feel better if I do not read the things one week etc., but than I have a wrong day and I need to calm down and I start to read again. I know the best way it would be just survive the bad days, but it is hard and I need to read.

Thank you for your help!

Best regards,

Marta

Guest

February 3, 2021, 2:37 pm

anxiety and fear can boost some feelings, also porn make real life sex less pleasurable you should reboot your brain search nofap it explains everything

Guest

February 3, 2021, 7:12 pm

People are born that way- Simple fact. People do not change and do not turn. OCD literally can make you feel ANYTHING and I mean ANYTHING.

You can even get tests when a mums pregnant to tell you if they are or are not that way.

Why you would put yourself infront of lesbian porn and finger bash is beyond me? I think if anything- its more about the sensory spot you can hit when you did it yourself 'which the guys now days' seem to know nothing about!

Guest

February 4, 2021, 1:58 am

Straight women can watch lesbian porn too. It’s more common than you think. I myself used to watch it when I was younger but I still know I’m straight.

Guest

February 4, 2021, 9:56 pm

Hey..i was with yhe same problem.i dont know why these thoughts pop in my mind.but these are fucking me all the time.Bit dont woryy.sexuality is determined by birth.ask you friends when they know they know there oriention.
We can deal with this together i you want.my mail id sathyaprakash8096@gmail.com

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