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needyou In my day.. But I do them with the feeling of sadness. I feel sad when I have thoughts in the background of my mind.. This is the difficult part of recovery
User2525 Hey can somebody check my absurd theme in other types
User2525 Can someone chak it and reply please
Joe Its funny on this forum- Everyone comes, writes something, and when they dont get the answer they want to hear or dont get re assurance you come back as guests or pretend to be other guests and try THE SAME QUESTION again. I had a post about HOCD which was viewed almost 300 times in 3 days yet every other post as 3-10 views? Everyone is here for re-assurance and are not working towards Recovery!
Seamstress That's not completely true. I know what you mean, but I am here to help in my recovery as well as to encourage others. By the way how do I see how many views are on a post. Not aware of that feature. My main complaint with this forum is all the spam on it. Hard to find the real posts on forum.
Seamstress Never mind. I see the views now. Wasn't looking in the right place.
Hoping True, really hard to find the real posts
Hoping Hey everyone, does anyone have any suggestions or can share the morning routine you use during the weekends? I have severe OCD especially on weekend mornings, even if the rest of my week has been relatively okay.
User2525 I have an unusual theme can someone reply to it it's in other types of ocd category
andrey_m Can someone help me, please? I need to hear your opinion. Is there someone who has overcome false memory ocd?
Amando Hey i'm struggling with real event ocd. I've had every theme of ocd and did erp and felt better. But now this real event ocd is bothering. It started when i've searched for a girl username on google who sends nudes the i've lied to her and show her some pictures of private part which i downloaded on google.we were s*x chatting then she found out and told but i deactivated my account now i'm afraid
Amando Now i'm afraid that i commited a crime and i also get thoughts that she might have commited suicide and i get urges to hand myselft to the police
Amando Can someone help me?
User2525 It feels loneöy with a theme that nobody else has sometimes i wish i would have a more common theme
User2525 Please somebody answer
User2525 My recovery would be so much eaaier
User2525 Please
User2525 Im so sorry for spam
User2525 I wont put a message for a while just please help im actively doing erp but theres this one question that i haven't got answered
User2525 Actually nevermind that might be reassuranse
Amando
User2525
Actually nevermind that might be reassuranse
Yeah man keep doing erp
User2525 You can just casually check it out but not give reassurase i think it would be okay if people were more aware of absurd themes
User2525
Amando
Yeah man keep doing erp
Because yes
User2525 I justhad a bad daywith erp
User2525 At öeast i realised it now ps oh im filling the chat again sorry
Amando
User2525
At öeast i realised it now ps oh im filling the chat again sorry
No that's fine man i understand you
Amando Did you read my post?
Amando Do you think mine also is ocd?
User2525 Wait one sec i'll read it
User2525 Hmm i get that i once had slight real event ocd (i've had many themes) at least it's more common than mine just do erp no matter what
User2525 Could you read the post about my avsurd theme don't give reassurance just give me a honest opinion and tell me whta you think
User2525 About it
User2525 Abd i absolutely think your theme is ocd
User2525 *and
Jessica How much today
Jessica How much your daily now
Jessica U happy together all day none stop
Jessica Hola
Powerful
needyou
In my day.. But I do them with the feeling of sadness. I feel sad when I have thoughts in the background of my mind.. This is the difficult part of recovery
Oh, totally, the sadness or fear was always in the background for me. But now I am so so much better. you are doing well if you are keeping yourself busy. The sadness will pass, believe me. Just keeping going! Track your rumination. It worked for me, it will work for you, don't give up
Amando
User2525
Could you read the post about my avsurd theme don't give reassurance just give me a honest opinion and tell me whta you think
Where is your post?
Bec1990
Powerful
Oh, totally, the sadness or fear was always in the background for me. But now I am so so much better. you are doing well if you are keeping yourself busy. The sadness will pass, believe me. Just keeping going! Track your rumination. It worked for me, it will work for you, don't give up
Hi all
Kevin Le
Bec1990
Hi all
how did u track ur rumination and im getting better but i sometimes feel like i dont wanna get better it hurts but im making slow progress im becoming an ea and im worried im not set for the job. - 7787754018 fongo
User2525 There is my post
User2525 My theme
User2525 Please somebody reply there
User2525 I have never got an ansver from somebody that knows about ocd
User2525 Sorry for filling the chat again i can wait for an answer i just calmed down but the answer would still be very good
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Hey. 

I've been dealing with hocd for a number of months now, by far the worst thing I've ever been through. So recently I've been doing a great job of disregarding thoughts which has felt really good but hocd kinda changed its path by saying that 'your gay because you don't like women' first thing i do but because of hocd my feelings of attraction have shot down, i find girls attractive still but I've lost that lust and desire (probably because there's so much anxiety around the subject) i remember pre hocd i was speaking to my brother about how i couldn't wait to have children and have a wife ect but there is just so much negative emotion around that now. Its now really the only fear i have with hocd now, that it will last forever and i don't feel like i want what i want if that makes sense. Not looking for reassures just wanting to know if some people are in the same boat. 

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You’re definitely not alone! Im a girl and have always have had interest in men always had boyfriends and imagined marrying a man and having kids. I have had several ocd themes so this theme doesn’t surprise me but also is the worst one I’ve dealt with. I had a date with a guy a month ago and was so excited that whole time i didn’t have any doubts or intrusive thoughts around the subject AT ALL. Then after the date ended and the need for reassurance kicked in again and it’s making me feel like I dont care about getting a boyfriend or finding the right man but I do. I literally sit and dream about my future wedding with my dream man all too often. You are most definitely not alone. These feelings will leave us soon, we can’t give into rumination and letting these feelings make us feel any different or anxiety. It’s all lies, the amount of things i’ve convinced myself i was at this point it’s hilarious!

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I just hate how if that day i got the intrusive thought was different i wouldn't be dealing with this right now. I just want to feel like i did before. Thanks for answering though and i know you'll recover, just a matter of time and perseverance.